Depression Information

10 Simple Coping Strategies When a Family Member Has Clinical Depression


1.Remember that it is an illness:

Clinical depression often requires medical supervision as well as professional treatment. Clinical depression is treatable and requires commitment, understanding and patience from all those involved.

2.It is not your fault:

Clinical depression is usually a combination of chemical imbalance and learned behaviors. There may be times when the depressed individual is extremely sensitive, argumentative and/or blaming towards you, the children, the in-laws, the boss and even the world. All the above mentioned are not the cause. What you are responsible for is how you choose to take on the outward symptoms and how they affect you, your home and your relationships.

3.Be well informed:

Educate yourself on what type of depression is present and if there is a dual diagnosis IE: chemical dependency and depression or personality disorders and depression. Know what the symptoms, treatments and follow-ups are. There are suggested guidelines for communication and setting boundaries. Though the illness is not your fault; it benefits you and your family to remain open minded and willing to learn new ways of doing things.

4.Make sure to have a support network:

Depression and dual diagnosis affects the whole family. There are many ranges of emotions from anger and fear to hopefulness and hopelessness. Having others that have experienced it before can help eliminate unhealthy coping mechanisms such as isolation, shame, control and low self-esteem. There are many national and local support groups available on line. For more information check with your favorite search engines or call a local and/or national mental health hotline.

5.Make time for yourself and your children:

Don't fall into the trap of not taking care of yourselves. Misery and fear love company. Living with and loving someone who is clinically depressed can be incredibly draining. Do not become a hostage or enabler. Remember your flight instructions: "For those traveling with small children; place the oxygen mask on yourself first and then assist the children."

6.Be a victor not a victim:

Pain is inevitable; suffering is optional: We are all going to feel pain in life never mind a home with mental illness. Surround yourselves with knowledge, self-care, experienced support and nurturing. There are no such things as victims only volunteers.

7.Recognize that clinical depression is episodic Clinical depression comes in waves. People with clinical depression do get better!

8.Understand that medication takes time to work:

In most cases, improvement takes as long as 6-8 weeks. Even early responders require about 3-4 weeks before they notice mood improvement. Even after a person with clinical depression feels better, she or he needs to stay on medication at least six months. People should never stop taking medication on their own; medical supervision is a must. There can be serious physical and emotional complications from sudden withdrawal such as increased depression and suicidal tendencies.

9.Medication alone is fairly ineffective:

Research shows that medication in combination with cognitive behavioral therapy is more effective than medication alone. Combined with therapy, the person who is clinically depressed may need to make lifestyle changes, including dietary and exercise changes. The family needs to find ways to reduce stressors by simplifying their lives.

10.Get a written relapse prevention plan:

Make a list of early symptoms such as sleep, appetite and mood changes. Early intervention is the key to stopping a downward spiral. Determine what worked in the past to get the person with clinical depression back on track and do the things that worked before.

Elizabeth Tull is a Professional Excellence coach who partners with people in crafting and designing Legacies of Excellence. Her focus is on bridging the recovery community to professional coaching as well as support for families dealing with clinical depression in the home. Visit her on the web http://www.agapelegacycoach.com


MORE RESOURCES:

WNCT

Atlantic hurricane season's 13th tropical depression forms off ...
CNN - 1 hour ago
MIAMI, Florida (CNN) -- The 13th tropical depression of the 2008 Atlantic hurricane season formed Monday in the Bay of Campeche, just off Mexico's Yucatan ...
Depression may form in Mexico's Bay of Campeche - NHC Reuters India
Tropical Depression 13 Swirls Near Mexico Central Florida News 13|
Tropical depression forms near Mexico oil fields Reuters AlertNet
BYM News (press release) - WESH.com
all 1,186 news articles


Many Military Installations Worldwide Participate in National ...
MarketWatch - 46 minutes ago
Command Sergeant Major Samuel M. Rhodes, Sr. from Fort Benning, Georgia, speaks to soldiers about his experience with depression and PTSD in order to ...


Poll: 60% say depression 'likely'
CNNMoney.com - 32 minutes ago
Poll finds 6 of 10 believe a depression is somewhat or very likely - seeing 25% unemployed and millions homeless and hungry. By Chris Isidore, CNNMoney.com ...
Report: Majority says depression is likely USA Today
all 2 news articles


Times Online

Could Obama be the new Roosevelt?
Times Online, UK - 21 hours ago
These were no more than village halts on the railroad to depression. However, we do know when the last global banking crisis was turned round, ...
Then & now San Diego Union Tribune
More Bank, Less Bucks: A Four Point Plan for the Rescue RGE Monitor
Does the US face Great Depression II? Hindu
USA Today - Dividend.com
all 113 news articles


RTE.ie

No depression, major recession, from US finance crisis: Bill Gates
AFP - 17 hours ago
"It looks like the economy may go down somewhat, but nothing like a big recession or a depression," he added. On some experts' misgivings about the US ...
Bill Gates: US financial crisis won't lead to end of capitalism ... Jerusalem Post
all 77 news articles


Signs of depression
Inquirer.net, Philippines - 23 minutes ago
So what is depression? Affecting 121 million people worldwide, the World Health Organization estimates that by 2020 depression will become the most ...


BYU joins national day of testing for depression
BYU Newsnet, UT - 2 hours ago
By Jorge Torres - 6 Oct 2008 According to Mental Health America, clinical depression is a common medical illness affecting more than 19 million American ...


Cramer: Preventing Great Depression II
TheStreet.com - Oct 5, 2008
Keep the coming depression -- no, it won't be a mere recession -- shorter than the Great Depression. With that low bar in mind, let me tell you what I would ...
Value Investing 101: Wachovia TheStreet.com
all 76 news articles


Great Depression survivors worried but don't see history repeating
Sun-Sentinel.com, FL - 10 hours ago
But is this economic meltdown anything like the Great Depression? "No, this is nothing," said Boca Raton resident Mary Walsh, who at 96 has vivid memories ...


Depression screening day Wednesday
The Courier News, IL - 8 hours ago
270 N. Grove Ave., marking National Depression Screening Day. That there is a need for such a day should come as no surprise. "It's gotten to the point that ...
GSU National Depression Screening Week eNews Park Forest
all 2 news articles

Depression - Google News

home | site map
Web Site Development - Search Engine Marketing: Dream Team Media